Want to take your blowjobs from meh to amazing? Try these five Blowjob hacks and watch your partner melt into your mouth (and hand!)
1. Use your hand, loosen your mouth.
When it comes to blowjobs, the wet juicy “blow” part happens with your mouth (but please don’t blow like a clarinet – apologies to my highschool boyfriend). However the “job” part happens with your hand. Use your hand and specifically your fingers wrapped around the penis to provide lots of nice pressure so your mouth can remain loose, wet and not exhausted.
2. Choose your ending.
When it comes to spitting or swallowing, the giver of the blowjob has full agency to decide. A great blow job and a terrible blowjob is not determined by whether one spits or swallows. (See number 5)
3. Use a flavored lubricant.
Penises taste like penises and that is totally fine. But if you want to add some flavor to the penis, then use a flavored lubricant! If a penis that tastes like strawberries and cream is enticing to the giver, it makes the experience better for everyone.
4. Remember the balls.
Don’t forget that the balls like to be gently handled too. With one hand on the shaft of the penis, you can place another hand right under the balls and delicately roll your fingers up and down. You might even press a finger into the perineum for some prostate pressure.
5. Enthusiasm.
Oral sex is very psychological and vulnerable, often more so than other types of sex. Creating enthusiasm as you are giving a blow job is the most helpful element in making it a beautiful, successful experience. Enthusiasm trumps technique, so even if you are unsure about a move, doing it with eagerness and zeal will get you farther than you think.
XOXO,
Dr. Celeste Holbrook
