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5 Ways Sex Toys Enhance Partnered Sex

July 27, 2022 by Velvet Box

Introducing 5 Ways Sex Toys Enhance Partnered Sex, a guest blog by our resident sexologist Dr. Celeste Holbrook.

“But my penis can’t vibrate…will she prefer that instead of me?”

This was a response from a client when I suggested they try looking into a clitoral vibrator to enhance their sexual experiences. The “replacement theory” is a myth that a sex toy could somehow replace a partner in sex, an idea that worries many. So I’d like to put this lie to rest by giving you five thrilling (and science-backed) ways that sex toys actually enhance partnered sex…not replace it!

1. Many vulva-owners enjoy clitoral stimulation and its ability to make them come. Add a bit of vibration or air pulse technology and you are experiencing more orgasms even during penetrative sex.

2. Masturbation is a beautiful and effective way to learn what you like, and in turn, communicate that to your partner. Whether you use a vibrator, a butt plug, or a masturbator sleeve, learning what you love will ultimately help you communicate your needs during partnered sex. And great communication leads to amazing sex.

3. Psychologically, we adore seeing our partners experience pleasure. This is called “compersion” and is the opposite of jealousy. It’s rarely talked about as one of the greatest joys of sex. Simply watching your partner confidently get off with their vibe can bring you closer and make the sexual experience 10x hotter and more pleasurable.

4. Novelty is the fuel of arousal. Remember when you are in a new relationship, how arousing it is to be around your partner? That is the power of novelty. Now that you have been together for a decade and you intimately know the sound of their chewing, finding new options in sex becomes an important key to keeping arousal hot. So why not sign up for a sexy shopping trip to check out the latest lingerie or restraints? You’ll be feeling that new relationship energy in no time!

5. If you both have the same genitalia, experience mobility issues or are simply bored with your usual missionary position, sex toys can give you the opportunity to experience different and/ or more accessible types of stimulation. A win for you and your partner!

Bottom line: embrace sex toys as companions on your road to fulfilling sexual experiences with your partner.

At Velvet Box, we offer a wide range of resources with Celeste including our on-demand class catalog, as well as our vast stock of sex toys and intimacy products that will guide you to the sexual fulfillment you’re yearning for. From our most recent webinar Vibe With Your Partner: Introducing Toys into the Bedroom to Sex Toys 101, and more, browse our on-demand catalog today and receive a curated list of products and toys with each class! There is truly something for everyone out there, so be brave, and start exploring.

View our full class catalog here and our online store here.

About Dr. Celeste Holbrook

Many of you may know our resident sexologist, Dr. Celeste Holbrook. Whether it’s through one or many of our intimacy classes with her, or perhaps you’ve been following her incredible Instagram all along (if not, we highly recommend you give her a follow). But for those who may not know her yet, Dr. Holbrook is a sexologist, speaker, and author who has dedicated her life to helping women achieve soul-centered sex through perfectly planned mental and behavioral changes. Learn more about Celeste and her journey as a sexologist on her website at drcelesteholbrook.com.

Love is Love

June 13, 2022 by Velvet Box

Love is Love. Introducing our top expert selection of intimacy products with something for everyone. From the sleek Renegade V2 to sexy restraints to the all liberating Liberator Wedge and more, these products are just what you need to feel the love this month. Select intimacy products now available online or in store.

Mojo Peruvian Ginseng Water-based Performance Glide Lubricant

Intimate Earth Lubricant - intimacy products available at Velvet Box

Get your juices flowing with Mojo Water-based Performance Glide Lubricant. This lube is blended with the sexual enhancement extract Peruvian Ginseng to help increase stamina. Maximum lubrication with max results. This lube will help you keep going (and going…) as long as you can.

Shop in-store or online.

Intimate Earth Elite Ultra Soft Silicone Glide Lubricant Shiitake

Made with silicone of the highest grade, Intimate Earth Elite Ultra Soft Silicone Glide Lubricant Shiitake lube is infused with natural Shiitake extracts and nourishing Vitamin E in order to give the best glide both in and out. This leading-edge formula has a unique consistency that gives maximum lubrication with an undeniable light silky smooth, long-lasting feel.

Shop in-store or online.

Under the bed restraints

Feeling adventurous? These are the perfect introduction to bondage and a whole new world of kink and sexual exploration. Under the bed restraints fit any size mattress and come with 4 detachable cuffs that allow you to try all sorts of different types of restraint positions. Get creative and submit yourself to something outside your comfort zone this summer!

Shop in-store or online.

Jelique Nipple Nibblers Cool Tingle Balm

Jelique Nipple Balm - intimacy products available at Velvet Box

Add a new level of cool to foreplay with Nipple Nibblers cool balm. These kissable formulas provide tasty and playful twists for enhanced arousal. They not only plump and sensitize, but are a sweet treat as well! Available in Root Beer and Bubble Gum, the ever-delicious Nipple Nibblers heightens sensitivity to nipples with every touch.

Available in-store only

Booster Bullet

A bullet is the must-have for any toy box, and the Femme Fun Booster Bullet is the best of them all. It’s small, rechargeable, and (best of all) powerful! It’s easy to use, comes with its own travel-friendly charging case, and even has savable vibrating settings, so you never have to search for your intensity. If you are in the market for that new go-to toy, get the one that you know always gets the job done: the Booster Bullet!

Available in-store only

Renegade V2 Rechargeable Anal Plug

Renegade Anal Plug - intimacy products available at Velvet Box

Truly a toy for anyone, Renegade’s innovative V2 plug features an exposed bullet design for powerful vibrating sensations. Made of soft platinum silicone, it includes a wireless remote for solo use or with a partner. Pair it with one of the Intimate Earth Lubes for maximum pleasure!

Available in-store only

Liberator Wedge

Take sex to the next level with the fun and functional Liberator Wedge. The Liberator Wedge position pillow allows for easy access, more comfortable positioning, and all-around new and exciting experiences. The pillowcases are soft, waterproof, and machine washable. Check, check, and check!

Available in-store only

Every day (month, or year for that matter!) is an opportunity for you to explore the world of intimacy products to find what works best for you and your desires. At Velvet Box, there truly is something for everyone, so come in and see all that we have to offer, and more!

Have a question about products in our Love is Love selections or looking for a location near you?

Everyone deserves great sex, and you deserve to know what works for you. Get brave and come see us at one of our five Dallas-Fort Worth locations. We’re proud to help you.

New sex ed and intimacy classes coming soon!

March 23, 2022 by Velvet Box

At Velvet Box, we pride ourselves on providing incredible sexual education resources for individuals from every generation to grow in intimate connection and learn about their sexuality and needs in a safe, fun, and educational way. That’s why we’re back with new live classes for you, your partner, and others to learn about informative topics from the comfort of your own home.

Our most recent live class, Everything P0rn Didn’t Teach You was a hit, and we’re excited to share that we have more coming your way! Mark your calendars for our informative lineup of classes debuting on the second Tuesday of each month.

Note: Each participant’s name and identity are anonymous when joining the class.

April 12th – Your First Time – Click Here to Register

Nervous about having sex for the first time? You aren’t alone! Most of us aren’t given a type of sexual education that helps us navigate pleasure and communication in our first sexual experience. Join this webinar to discover what to expect and how to be an advocate for your own pleasure from day one.

In this class, participants will:

1. Explore how to create a sexual ethic that can help you make sexual choices perfectly suited to you.

2. Discover what to expect your first time having sex.

3. Learn about and practice consent.

May 10th – Raising Sexually Healthy Kids

Many of us want to give our kids more helpful sex education than we received from our parents…but where do you start? Join our webinar to discover the small but meaningful steps you can take to ensure your kids are gaining the information they need to make healthy sexual choices for themselves.

In this class, participants will:

1. Explore how your own sexual shame and experiences impact our education to our children.

2. Discover authentic sexual communication that builds sexually resilient kids.

3. Identify how to discuss sex throughout different childhood ages.

June 14th – Post-Partum – stay tuned for more information!

July 12th – 5 Sexual Myths – stay tuned for more information!

For the past 12 years, we’ve enjoyed being a part of your journey to intimate connection and sexual growth more than you know, and we look forward to having you with us on this next chapter of education!

Can’t want to wait for our new courses to become available? Check out our on-demand course catalog with something for everyone.

Everyone deserves great sex, and you deserve to know what works for you. Get brave and come see us at one of our five Dallas-Fort Worth locations. We’re proud to help you.

3 ways to have the best sex of your life this year

January 17, 2022 by Velvet Box

It’s 2022, and if we learned anything from the prior year it’s that the dialogue around sex and sexuality has grown into one that is open, popular, and – quite frankly – the new norm. We pride ourselves on being part of a modern evolution in which there are incredible resources for individuals from every generation to grow in intimate connection and learn about their own sexuality and needs in a safe and educational way.

If prioritizing your sex life is a part of your New Year’s Resolutions, consider this your golden ticket to experiencing sensual and intimate pleasure in your body, soul, and partnerships. From communication tools to educational classes to utilizing industry experts as a source of advice and guidance on your road to sexual exploration, here are 3 ways you can have the best sex of your life this year.

1. Talk about sex more

Communication both in and out of the bedroom is the most important aspect when trying to build intimacy in a partnership. Start discussing the things you like and want, and the things you don’t. However, we understand that it can be difficult to break down the barrier if sex isn’t normally a topic of discussion. If you need help on where to start, explore our communication tools for inspiration!

2. Explore what sparks your curiosity

Anal? Role play? Bondage? If there’s something outside your normal sex routine that you’re wanting to explore, there is no time like the present. You deserve sexual fulfillment, and it all begins with learning about it in a safe and educational way! If you’re looking for the entryway into the discussion with your partner, skip the fathomless internet and suggest you watch one of our on-demand classes on whatever you’re wanting to explore. From Booty Basics to Get Kinky to our all encompassing Spice Things Up bundle, our classes are the perfect, anonymous setting to start diving into new experiences – together.

3. Commit to some novelty in the bedroom

A great way to start having consistently great sex is by building a routine. Scheduling sex is a good idea, and commiting to trying something new each month or so is a great one. Try a new toy or product each month and commit to integrating it into your sex life and experience the new thrills you’re yearning for! For expert knowledge on everything from lube to vibrators, come into one of our 5 DFW locations and talk to one of our amazing trained sex-perts. There’s no need to be shy, we promise.

Commit to yourself and your pleasure this year. You don’t need a reason to, but if you’re looking for one, it’s because you deserve it.

Everyone deserves great sex, and you deserve to know what works for you. Get brave and come see us at one of our five Dallas-Fort Worth locations. We’re proud to help you.

Introducing our new and in-store only products!

November 2, 2021 by Velvet Box

Velvet Box is excited to announce that we have introduced eight new intimacy products into our stores, just in time for the holidays! From the VUSH vibrator featured in a Cardi B music video “UP” to pleasure pillows and more, if you have yet to visit us in-store, these products are about to change that. Treat yourself and your community this season by shopping locally and stop by one of our five fully stocked Dallas-Fort Worth locations to shop your favorites!

The Rose 2

Bring out the candles and rose petals for this one and get ready to show yourself some romance. It’s hard not to fall in love with the VUSH Rose 2. This little casanova is a small, gently flexible, and pleasantly vibrant bullet vibrator, with precision point vibrations that work for any and everybody. Use it as a warm-up to provide additional sensations anywhere on the body or as the main event sure to lead to the grand finale you’re yearning for.

Majesty 2

If you’re thinking, “Is this the vibrator Cardi B is holding in her new video?” The answer is yes, yes it is. VUSH Majesty 2 is an incredible wand vibrator that’s about to shake UP the way you play. Wands work their magic for all bodies, making Majesty 2 the perfect partner for both solos or duets in the bedroom. With 5 varying levels and 10 different patterns designed for maximum pleasure, there’s a perfect vibe for everyone. Whether this is your first toy or an exciting addition to your collection, Majesty 2 is for you.

Myth

Meet Myth, a G-Spot vibrator from VUSH that is powerful and ready for action. In a not-so-far-away land lives the legend of the G-Spot, and Myth is the perfect partner on your quest to find it. With a magical, unique texture designed for intense sensations and a body-happy curve to hit the spot, your journey is only just beginning. Be the hero of your own story with Myth by your side.

The Love Hamma

Experience mind-blowing erotic thrills and pleasures with a new, fun, and exciting sex tool! If you’re ready to lose yourself in roleplay, erotic play, or even just mind-blowing orgasms, the Love Hamma Vibrator will help you get there. With 2 different designs and unique shapes, pulsations, and sensual vibrations, the Love Hamma is sure to satisfy any pleasure seeker.

Vesper

Looking for something that will give you goosebumps? Vesper is the world’s first USB rechargeable, multi-speed vibrator necklace. Made up of a solid 316 stainless steel pendant with a nickel-free plated cap and a 26″ stainless steel chain, its clean, sleek aesthetics make for both a subtle addition to your outfit and a standalone statement piece. This vibrator has 4 speeds – low, medium, high, and pulsing – and is ideal for a little nipple play or soft caressing on the skin.

USB cabled and storage pouch included. Splash-proof. Not for insertion. External use only.

Kurve

KURVE is a sex toy superhero on a mission to seek out the G-spot. This vibrator features Hot Octopuss patented dual-motor Treble and Bass technology™, offering the ultimate in user customization. High-tech and sleek in design, it has a soft gel tip that provides a broad surface area for both clitoral and internal stimulation and efficient contours that ensure the right kind of pressure is just where you want it. Kurve will help your orgasms go to infinity and beyond.

Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo

Take sex to the next level with the fun and functional Liberator Position Pillows. Velvet Box now carries several of the most popular Liberator shapes, including the Wedge, the Ramp, the Wedge/Ramp combo, and the Flip Ramp (say that five times fast!). The Liberator position pillows allow for easy access, more comfortable positioning, and all around new and exciting experiences. The pillowcases are soft, waterproof, and machine washable. Check, check, and check!

Snail Vibe

Meet Snail Vibe: the vibrator created by professionals using scientifically backed research and development. Scientists Dr. Stuart Brody and Professor Tillman Kruger discovered that the orgasm from sexual intercourse, as compared to orgasm from masturbation, produces a 400% greater prolactin level, which is responsible for sexual satisfaction. Who knew?

Designed with their discovery in mind, Snail Vibe’s duel ends provide both clitoral and internal vaginal stimulation using sliding movements that simulate intercourse. The result: mind-blowing orgasms. At last, the product we’ve been waiting for!

All products are available for purchase in-store at one of our five Dallas-Fort Worth locations. Come in and see us! Excitement and connection await.

Building Intimacy through Eye Gazing: An Exercise

November 2, 2021 by Velvet Box

It can often be difficult to feel truly connected during sex. Your mind can wander. Sometimes it feels like a task or chore that we are just checking off the list. You just don’t feel as present as you’d like to. Sound familiar?

According to Sex Therapist Dr. Celeste Holbrook, being present is the key to sensuality. Sensuality is by definition “enjoying your senses.” But you cannot enjoy your senses in the future or in the past. You have to be in the moment.

Here, Dr. Holbrook has provided a quick exercise to sink into the moment prior to sex with your partner using your sense of vision. It is an eye gazing exercise that helps you direct your most highly relied upon sense (your eyesight) into the present. Note: This is a very intimate activity, so only start with 10 seconds.

Here is how you do it:

Sit down comfortably, facing your partner.
Set the timer. You may choose anywhere from 10 seconds to 10 minutes. Start with a time that feels comfortable but somewhat challenging and work up. The longer, the more powerful the experience.
Gaze into the eyes of your partner. You can blink at any point, it’s not a staring competition.
If you get distracted, simply bring back your awareness to the eyes of your partner.
After the experience is over, grab a piece of paper and draw / write about how you are feeling.
Talk about the experience with your partner…you may want to write down a few things in your journal immediately and talk about the experience later. That is okay. Just be sure to debrief at some point.

A note from Dr. Holbrook

Please know that this can be uncomfortable. If you think about it, we don’t sit and look at each other without the help of words to smooth the depth of the connection. But the important part is that you try. Try connecting in this way, on your bed, clothes on or off, before sex. After you get more comfortable with it, it will feel like a beautiful, intimate reset button. It is grounding, it is connective and it is happy!

You deserve to experience the intimacy you’re longing for, and Velvet Box is proud to provide you with resources to further your journey. For more information on building intimacy with your partner, view our Building Intimacy Checklist.

Everyone deserves great sex, and you deserve to know what works for you. Get brave and come see us at one of our five Dallas-Fort Worth locations. We’re proud to help you.