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Steamy Summer Reads + Toy Pairings

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The heat is rising, the beach is calling, and the summer days are drawing near. We don’t know about you, but we are shedding winter layers and starting the summer off with some steamy reads. We have paired these hot summer books with toy recommendations that will help bring the story to life and make your summer the hottest one yet!

For the Rom-Com Lover

Hook, Line, and Sinker by Tessa Bailey + Womanizer Clitoral Stimulator. A classic rom-com pairs best with our go-to toy, the Womanizer Clitoral Stimulator. You can’t go wrong with this duo! You can shop the Womanizer online or in-store.

For the Fan of Fantasy and Adventure

A Touch of Darkness by Scarlett St. Clair + Bondage Couture Leather Flogger. Get in touch with YOUR dark side with a bit of BDSM to spice things up! This flogger is definitely for the lover of all things adventure. You can shop this flogger online or in-store.

For the Lover of a Slow-Burn Romance

Twisted Love by Ana Huang + Nu Sensuelle Tulla Nubii Bullet. A forbidden love story paired with this ultra-sleek bullet is the recipe for a steamy summer vacation. Sign us up! Shop this bullet online or in-store!

For the Magical and Erotic Fiction Fan

A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas + Satisfyer Lolli-Plug 2 Silicone Anal Beads. Are you ready to make some MAGIC with this fantastic pairing? The best news is this book is just the first of EIGHT books, so you can enjoy the series — and the beads — all summer long. You can shop these anal beads in-store or online!

Whether you are looking for a great book for your beach vacay or want to bring the heat at home, these steamy book pairings are the perfect way to explore your deepest desires all summer long. Happy reading!

P.S. If you are needing more recommendations for toys and resources to spice up your summer, stop by one of our 6 DFW stores for a luxury and personalized shopping experience.

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Velvet Box Resident Sexologist, Dr. Celeste Holbrook, Featured by The Fort Worth Report

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We are excited to announce that our resident sexologist, Dr. Celeste Holbrook, was featured in the Fort Worth Report for her impactful work in providing judgment-free sex education for the Fort Worth community and beyond. The article, written by Alexis Allison, highlights Celeste’s ongoing mission to have an open, honest dialogue surrounding sexual health and change how we view sex education. Forget your typical high school sex ed class; Celeste is taking these conversations to the next level. Her work in her practice and with Velvet Box is helping to break the stigma surrounding sex and help others feel empowered and educated when it comes to their sexual health!

“Her reach is going to be vast. She has the potential, and I think she’s headed in the direction of someone who is going to change the conversation about sex in America,” said Rosanne Hauck, Fort Worth Realtor and long-time client of Holbrook. We couldn’t agree more! We are thankful for Celeste’s ongoing partnership with Velvet Box and are excited to stand alongside her as she continues to lessen the stigma surrounding sex 

You can read the full article from the Fort Worth Report here.

P.S. Get a taste of Celeste’s incredible work for yourself with our on-demand courses! Each class is led by Celeste and is jam-packed with her immense knowledge and wisdom.

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

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Ditch the chocolate and flowers and skip straight to pleasure this Valentine’s Day! Treat yourself, your partner, or both of you to Valentine’s gifts that keep on giving with these 10 hand-picked products from our Velvet Box sex-perts. Shop these products online or stop by one of our 6 locations for a luxurious, indulgent shopping experience.

Doxy Die Cast 3 Wand

Premium External

Ready for a toy that can do it all? Meet The Doxy Number 3 – a wand vibrator that is ready to plug in and play as soon as it arrives. You never need to worry about running out of charge at the wrong moment. Along with being one of the most powerful wands on the market, its long power cord and big, easy to use buttons make play time effortless and fun. Plug-in power so you can say bye-bye to batteries and never lose the oomph in your aaaaahhhhhh!

It gets better though. This magical wand can be enjoyed by anyone! Additional attachments can be purchased with the wand to provide alternative experiences for both penis and vulva owners. Its detachable head makes it easy to clean and swap out attachments for whatever pleasure you want to explore. It really can do it all. Shop in-store and online.

Womanizer OG

Premium Internal

Treat yourself or your partner this Valentine’s Day to the Womanizer OG – the newest and most intense G-spot stimulator available on the market. This stimulator combines air pulsation with unique vibration technology for a truly one-of-a-kind orgasmic journey. This sleek vibrator’s standout design creates a custom fit that aligns with the curve of your body making it easy and comfortable to use.

For those who want G-spot stimulation, clitoral sensation, and big Os… the Womanizer OG is for you.  Shop in-store and online.

We-Vibe Chorus

For Couples

We-Vibe’s flagship product, Chorus, is the perfect toy for couples looking to enjoy vibrating pleasure together. Chorus’ secret is in its smart simplicity. It’s packed with all of We-Vibe’s industry-leading knowledge and technology, like the intuitive Squeeze remote, Touch-sense modes, and AnkorLink to maximize pleasure. The Chorus can also double as a dual-stimulation panty vibrator for on-the-go fun.

This We-Vibe essential now comes in the stunning Cosmic Blue color option with refreshed, vibrant packaging you won’t be able to wait to unwrap! Shop in-store and online.

La Nua Water-Based Lube

Lubricant

Made up of clean, natural ingredients, this fragrance-free water-based lubricant by La Nua is a favorite due to its antimicrobial properties that are latex condom compatible. Packaged in a frosted glass bottle with a bamboo trim, this lubricant provides a luxurious look in planet-friendly packaging. If you’re looking for a sexy sustainable lube, make it La Nua. Shop in-store only.

Sportsheets Saffron Love Strap

BDSM

Calling all lovers of Doggy Style! Pull your partner closer for a deeper, more fulfilling experience than ever before with Saffron Love Doggy Style Strap. This attractive, vegan leather strap wraps around the abdomen during doggy style and other “from behind” positions. The result: diminished pressure on knees and back, more power to deeply penetrate and pummel with vigor, and better access to the G-spot or P-spot!

Use the hand loops to pull your partner back into you, controlling the momentum and keeping them close without bending over them. We’re all about making orgasms a priority in life, but the love strap will make the ride there even better. Shop in-store and online.

Arcwave Pow Silicone Stroker

Masturbator

If you’re a penis owner looking for the ultimate, natural feeling stroker, the Arcwave Pow is it. This premium manual stroker was developed with an intuitive silicone sleeve and air pressure release valve that works together to harness natural suction. With the touch of a finger, you can control the suction intensity exactly to your liking, creating a customizable, totally realistic feeling. .

The lightweight, versatile design of this stroker creates a unique experience for every user – and it’s cute, too! Shop in-store and online.

FemmeFunn Balai

Premium Dual Vulva Stimulation

Vulva owners, show yourself some FUN this February with The FemmeFunn Balai. This premium dual-stimulation rabbit is known for its unparalleled pleasure features. Featuring 12 vibration modes, silky-soft premium silicone, and a unique swaying motion that provides stimulation to both the g-spot and clitoris, this rabbit is a one-stop shop for multiple orgasms.

The features can be used individually or all at once for maximum, toe curling, can’t-help-but-moan sessions! Bonus: this toy is 100% waterproof- perfect for adventurous water play. Shop in-store only.

Bathmate HydroMax 5

Men’s Pump

Pump, pump, pump it up! Pump that penis right on up. Get bigger and better results with the Hydromax5, a cutting-edge bellows pump system for the erections you’re yearning for. Using water pump technology, the Hydromax5 distributes blood flow more evenly to the penis helping to create a fuller, more stable erection.

Its transparent chamber allows you to track your progress, too. It also comes with an angle change option to make it easy to use in the shower or bath. Whether purchased for yourself or your partner, BIG things are ahead with the Hydromax5. Shop in-store and online.

Sensuelle Flexii Beads

Anal

Whether you’re an experienced user or new to the game of anal beads, Sensuelle Flexii Beads make it easy for everyone. As the name suggests, Flexii Beads are ultra-flexible, multi-use anal beads with three deep rumbling motors that take power and pleasure to the next level. Designed with the contours of your body in mind, these beads make it simple and easy for both G-spot and P-spot stimulation.

With 3 speeds and 12 modes, the Flexii Beads are unlike any other on the market. Grab your lube and your Flexii Beads this Valentine’s Day and get ready for a night like never before. Shop in-store and online.

Elvie

Kegels

Looking to strengthen your pelvis in preparation for the big day? Do some Kegels with Elvie – your new personal pelvic trainer! The Elvie Trainer is a smart Kegel trainer recommended by health and fitness experts to strengthen your pelvic floor through muscle strength exercises.

Strengthening your pelvic floor helps with intimate well-being, bladder control, postnatal recovery, and so much more. This award-winning product connects to the Elvie app so you can easily track your progress and celebrate reaching your goals! Ideal for vulva and penis owners, stay on top of your pelvic health with Elvie.

Happy Valentine’s Day to you!

These recommended gift picks are the perfect way to show your partner (or yourself) some next-level love this Valentine’s day. You can shop these or explore custom recommendations in-store at one of our 6 DFW locations. See you soon! 

XOXO, 

Team Velvet Box

Have a question about products in our Valentine’s Day Gift Guide or looking for a location near you?

Velvet Box Holiday Gift Guide

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‘Tis the season for connection and excitement! 

Are you looking to explore with yourself or with your partner? Our holiday gift guide is an excellent place to start! We have something for everyone, as well as some excellent pairing recommendations to ensure you and your recipient have what you need to bring the heat this holiday season. So, come on and get curious!

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For Vulvas

Treat yourself or your favorite vulva owner to these delectable treats this holiday season!

Svakom Iris Silicone G-Spot Rechargeable Vibrator

If g-spot exploration and stimulation are high on your holiday list this year, the Svakom Iris Silicone G-spot Rechargeable Vibrator is just the toy for you.

Whether your first toy or tenth toy, Iris is designed to apply satisfying pleasure directly to the G-spot and clitoris. It has an oval ring raised texture on the spoon-shaped head, with an angle perfect for exploring any body type.

Despite being ultra-soft and comfortable on the skin, Iris still packs a punch. Utilizing a powerful motor, with optional degrees of intensity, each session can be made to fit the exact moment and desire.

The finger-like shape provides excellent mobility whilst preventing slipping, Iris is the perfect toy for getting started and working towards the finish line.

Shop in-store or online.

Pairs well with

Intimate Earth Discover G-Spot Stimulating Serum

Take your g-spot orgasm to new heights with this stimulating serum! Whether you’re new to g-spot play or looking to level up, this is a great serum to make the g-spot easier to find and stimulate.

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Wicked Simply Foam and Fresh Toy Cleaner

After playtime, give your new toy a bath with this toy cleaner. These specially-formulated cleansers keep your toys clean AND safe so you can use them again and again and again…

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Doxy Bullet Rechargeable Aluminum Vibe

What’s more exciting than the holiday season? The Doxy Bullet Vibe. Amp up the excitement, heighten the fun, and feel every sensation in high definition with the beautifully designed Doxy Bullet made for ultimate discretion and sensational stimulation.

This small-yet-mighty Bullet delivers the powerfully good vibrations you’re looking for with a greater range of skin-tingling experiences for pleasure beyond measure. All at just a whisper.

Quiet, easy to handle, ergonomic to use, with seven modes and a sculpted tip for perfect precision play, this delightful little gem shines as the surefire way to glide towards blissful abandon.

Whether solo or in company, in the comfort of your home or out exploring the world, the Doxy is the only companion you’ll want to have on hand.

Shop in-store or online. 

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Sensuva ON Arousal Gel For Her

Treat yourself to even greater pleasure by adding in arousal gel! ON Arousal Gel increases orgasm intensity, duration and frequency. Paired with your new bullet, this gel will have you orgasming through the new year…

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Intimate Earth Hydra Natural Glide Lube

The more lube, the better (especially in colder weather). This lube is designed to jive naturally with the body’s own moisture while amplifying and enhancing pleasure, and eliminating unwanted friction.

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Bunny and Clyde Rechargeable Silicone Rabbit Vibrator

Santa baby, slip a Rabbit under the tree, for me. If you’re looking for a toy that can do it all, the Bunny and Clyde Rabbit is for you. 

Not for the faint hearted, the Bunny and Clyde is a much more powerful rabbit than it looks. Under its elegant and refined design hides the stunning power back and forth tapping movements that provide overwhelming pleasures.

Ultra-ergonomic and handy, each part of the rabbit has its own motor that stimulates the clitoris, the vagina or both, independently.

Enjoy Bunny and Clyde, however you prefer, wherever you are and whenever you want!

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Pairs well with

Wicked Sensual Care Simply Hybrid

Get wicked great orgasms by pairing your new rabbit with this gentle water-based lube. Incredibly smooth and long-lasting, it’s the best of both worlds.

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Jo Misting Toy Cleaner Fresh Scent

Clean toys make for a happy vulva and vulva owner! This spray toy cleaner works quickly to keep your toys ready for play anytime, anywhere.

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For Penises

Treat yourself or your favorite penis-owner to these delectable treats this holiday season!

We-Vibe Vector+ Rechargeable Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote Control

Move over jingle bells, it’s prostate play all the way. Experience next level pleasure with the Vector+ prostate massager.

Designed for your comfort with an adjustable head and flexible base, Vector hits all the right spots. Gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations stimulate both the prostate and perineum. 

The internal prostate stimulator is adjustable to fit your unique body, giving vibrations right where you want them. The external arm is flexible and positioned toward the body to provide vibrations to the perineum. 

Play together with the We-Vibe app to give your foreplay extra spark– across a room or a continent– or use the remote control provided.

Shop in-store or online.

Pairs well with

Intimate Earth Plush Hybrid Anal Glide

The first rule of anal play: use lube. Show the prostate the comfort and cushion it wants and deserves with the addition of an anal glide.

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Hiney Helper Anal Relaxant

The second rule of anal play: don’t forget to relax! Achieve ultimate anal relaxation with Hiney Helper.

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Kiiroo Titan Interactive Vibrating Pornstar Experience Masturbator

What to get the penis-owner who has it all? The Kiiroo Titan interactive masturbator.

Titan is a handheld stroker with touch-sensitive vibration technology. It features a real-feel sleeve and 9 vibrating bullets that intensify your masturbatory experience. Play alone and enjoy the many different modes and speeds that TITAN has to offer.

A new standard in interactive pleasure, the user can connect this stroker to one of over 4,000 interactive videos on a range of different content platforms. Feel every movement made by your favorite stars, whether it is in 2D or VR.

The perfect travel companion, the TITAN also allows you to share your pleasure with your partner(s) by using the touch-sensitive pads. Control the speed and intensity of the vibrations or strokes on your partner’s device for anywhere in the world. Ain’t technology grand?

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Pairs well with

Wicked Aqua Heat Water Based Warming Lubricant

Bring on the heat! Add a dollop of this warming lubricant to the penis to stimulate and excite your erogenous zones with pleasure. Use with a partner or alone!

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Admiral Seabreeze Toy Cleaner

Clean up time just got easier. To properly remove lubricants, fluids and bacteria, this eco-friendly toy cleaner is a powerful, safe and effective addition to keep your toy and penis happy and healthy.

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Nexus Enhance Rechargeable Silicone Vibrating C-Ring

Experience sensational vibes everywhere you want them this season with the Nexus Enhance.

Nexus Enhance is a vibrating c-ring, perfect to use alone or with a partner. The rings will keep you going harder and longer while the six-function vibrator will stimulate you or your partner, depending on how you wear it.

Double the pleasure, double the power. This truly is the vibrating ring of all vibrating rings!

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Pairs well with

Sensuva On Power Glide For Him

Go full speed ahead with a power glide lube. This fast-acting gel dramatically heightens sensation for penis-owners, increases blood flow, and maximizes satisfaction.

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Main Squeeze Toy Cleaner

Maintain and freshen your new toy with this safe and effective cleansing formula. Your genitals will thank you later, too!

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Thor by Renegade Rechargeable Silicone Remote Control Prostate Massager

Whether you’re a Marvel fan or not, who hasn’t fantasized about having Chris Hemsworth inside of them? While the rest of us wait for him to magically appear under the tree, for penis owners, the Thor by Renegade is the next best thing. 

Thor by Renegade is a remote-controlled prostate massager – featuring a flexible shaft and a warming function for elevated temperature sensation – guaranteed to offer explosive stimulation.

Made of body-safe plush silicone, Thor features a remote control for solo play or with a partner. It’s is rechargeable, water resistant, and suitable with all lubricants.

Put it this way, Thor by Renegade brings both love and thunder.

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Pairs well with

CG Tush Tease Anal Stimulant Au Natural

How about adding a little tease and tingle into the mix? This anal stimulant is formulated to boost sensitivity and heighten pleasure.

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Prowler Large Bulb Douche Anal Black

Stuff… happens, and it’s perfectly normal! However, douching before anal play can help to keep those intimate moments focused on pleasure. 

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For Couples

Treat yourself and your partner to some holiday fun with these top toys designed for couples.

Kiiroo Titan and Pearl2 Couple Set Masturbator and Vibrator

Nothing says happy holidays to us like a toy set for two. 

This set is a win-win for both penis and vulva owners. Complete with the Kiiroo Titan masturbator and Pearl2 g-spot vibrator, both are sure to drive any couple wild. 

TITAN is a handheld stroker with touch sensitive technology. Pearl2 is a technologically advanced, touch-sensitive G-spot vibrator. Use both at the same time or watch while your partner moans out of pleasure with each stroke or vibrations. 

Pairs well with

Sensuva On Arousal Gel Original Water Base Natural Gel For Her

For vulva owners, treat yourself to even greater pleasure by adding in arousal gel! This gel increases orgasm intensity, duration and frequency and pairs perfectly with the Pearl2.

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Sensuva On Sex Drive For Him Arousal Cream

Vulvas don’t have all the fun. While prepping your penis for the Titan, add a dollop of this arousal cream to feel firmer and increase stamina.

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We-Vibe Date Night Set

Date nights just got better thanks to We-Vibe.

A real value pack at an unbeatable price point, the Date Night Set offers two iconic We-Vibe products, the Nova and Pivot in rich Velvet Green with luxurious golden charging pins. It’s a moment, a night, or a weekend, of orgasmic pleasure in a beautiful gift box. 

Designed to enhance intimacy and partnered play for couples, Nova 2 gives blended orgasms while Pivot enhances and prolongs erection for a Date Night that lasts.

Designed in a rich, velvety green color, if this set doesn’t scream “we’re having fun this holiday season”, we don’t know what will!

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Pairs well with

Me And You Pheromone Infused Luxury Massage Oil Berry Flirt

A sensual massage is the perfect foreplay for a cozy date night in. Turn on your partner, turn down the lights, and add a little massage oil into the mix.

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Intimate Earth Natural Flavors Glide Fresh Strawberries

Glide into your new toys or in/on your partner with the seductive strawberry flavors of this lube. Makes for a tasty dessert, and also pairs well with champagne. Cheers!

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Under the Bed Restraint Set

Is getting kinky on your holiday wish list? If so, Under the Bed Restraints are just the ticket. 

The perfect introduction to bondage and a whole new world of kink and sexual exploration. Under the bed restraints fit any size mattress and come with 4 detachable cuffs that allow you to try all sorts of different types of restraint positions. 

Get creative and submit yourself to something outside your comfort zone this season!

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Pairs well with

Fetish Fantasy Series Deluxe Fantasy Love Mask Black

Take sensory play to the next level by adding a blindfold into the mix. Place the blindfold on your partner and surprise them while you tease and tantalize any part of their body you or they desire… (with consent!)

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Massage Candle Tahitian Sandalwood

Ideal for both sensory play and an intimate massage. Drop a small dollop on the skin for a temporary hot tingle and then gently rub it into the skin for a warm, sensual feeling.

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We Vibe Tease Us Bond/Bond Set

On the second day of Christmas, my true love gave to me: two black silicone vibrating rings!

The perfect duo for penis-owning couples, Tease Us is a set of app-controlled wearable stimulation rings for bold couples looking to try something new. 

Designed for fiery foreplay, Bond allows you to send delicious vibrations to your partner using the We-Vibe app. 

This is a special edition set, so get yours while they’re hot!

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Pairs well with

Prolonging Delay Spray For Men 2oz

Get more banging for your buck with Proloonging spray. Desensitize while stimulating to delay or prevent premature ejaculation so you can keep going all night long.

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Intimate Earth Hydra Natural Glide Water-Based Natural Plant Cellulose Lube

Hydration during the holiday season is key! This hydrating lube amplifies and enhances pleasure on the penis while eliminating unwanted friction from the ring or penetration.

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Gender X Sweet Embrace Rechargeable Silicone Dual Vibrating Strap-On with Remote Control

If you can’t strap into Santa’s Sleigh this season, the Sweet Embrace Dual Vibrating Strap-On is the next best thing! Two powerful motors in one strap-on experience mean more pleasure for everyone. 

This gently curved vibe shaft with a crowned head has two robust motors controlled separately – one in the head and one in the base. Slip the vibe inside the harness for a comfy secure fit and focus on wearable fun.

Use the remote control for hands free or partner play and take your adventures underwater as it’s completely submersible and waterproof. With 10 vibrating speeds, you and your partner will be dashing and dancing to any rhythm you desire!

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Pairs well with

Wicked Sensual Care Simply Hybrid With Olive Leaf Extract

When you want lube, do it simply. This creamy and realistic lube is the perfect companion to your new strap-on.

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Intimate Earth Green Foaming Toy Cleaner Tea Tree Oil

When it comes to strap-ons, you want nothing but the best cleaner in the biz. This foaming cleaner is silicone, glass, steel, and plastic safe and makes for an easy clean in the shower!

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And, friends, this is just the beginning! If you’re still stumped on what to get yourself or your special someone this holiday season, come see our friendly sex-perts at one of our 6 DFW-area beautiful stores, and we’ll make sure your holidays are merry, bright, and oh-so-sexy!

Have a question about products in our Holiday Gift Guide or looking for a location near you?

Sex after Breast Cancer: Go from Surviving to Thriving

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Have you or someone you care about been diagnosed with breast cancer? Are you currently seeking treatment — or are you in recovery and feel unsure of the steps to take to get back to a “normal” sexual self-image? We asked our resident sexologist Dr. Celeste Holbrook for insight and science-backed advice on ways survivors can begin to feel sexually confident again.

Sex after Breast Cancer: Go from Surviving to Thriving

If you or anyone you care about has ever been diagnosed with breast cancer, you know how disorienting and disruptive it can be. When choosing and pursuing treatments, your focus has been on survival, and with good reason. But there is more to life than just surviving. I have worked with many women who have come through to the other side of treatment only to face difficulty getting back to their “normal” life. This is especially true when it comes to sex. Entering back into a happy, healthy sex life after breast cancer diagnosis and treatment can feel daunting. But I know from my work with my clients that there are steps you can take that will bring you from surviving to thriving — in your bedroom, and in your life.

1. Establish a positive relationship with your breasts

Work to establish a positive relationship with your breasts, which may mean understanding any negative relationship you have with your breasts. Whether you had a mastectomy, lumpectomy, radiation or reconstruction, your relationship with your breasts has changed. Take time to write down how you feel about them now. Here are some prompts to get you started: What makes you angry about them? What are you grateful for? Do you feel like they are still unknown? Do you have emotions surfacing about how they look or feel? Do you need to grieve any loss of sensation? How do you feel about your partner touching them? What communication needs to happen between you and your partner, so they know how to respect your breasts?

2. Work within your comfort zone

If you aren’t feeling entirely up for being bare-chested during sex, consider buying some fun new lingerie or an oversized button-down shirt. You can pair the shirt with your sexiest panties and leave as many (or all!) of the buttons undone as you like.

3. Create new sexual associations

Try new sensations on your breasts to create new sexual associations. If what you did before breast cancer diagnosis and treatment doesn’t feel good to you now, try to make a new pleasure association with your brain. If you experience some loss of sensation, you may want to try an arousal cream on your nipples or use a flavored lubricant for your partner to lick and kiss. (See below for recommended products and more.) 

4. Go slow and show your body compassion

Remember to go slowly, and give yourself and your body lots of compassion. It has been through significant trauma and may need some time to recover…even after your treatments are over. Be patient. Your sexy, sensual side will return. 

At Velvet Box, we are passionate about helping all individuals achieve the intimacy, connection, and excitement they deserve. Stop by one of our six DFW locations or shop online to find the products and advice you’re looking to explore.  And for more insights from our resident sexologist, please check out our on-demand sex education classes where Dr. Celeste will lead you through a wide range of topics from how to combat low libido to how to (discreetly) construct the sexy bedroom of your wildest dreams.

Recommended products and classes

Nipple Nibblers Tingle Balm

Add a touch of Nipple Nibblers Wicked Watermelon Tingle Balm to increase sensation on the nipples. The kissable formula provides a tasty and playful twist for enhanced arousal for both parties!

Intimate Earth Flavored Lubricant

Allow your partner to kiss and lick you all over by adding a dollop of Intimate Earth Cheeky Apples Flavored Lubricant anywhere you want to feel an exciting touch. This staff favorite is made with all-natural apple flavors and organic stevia for a delicious taste and texture.

Womanizer Liberty

The perfect companion (and it’s cute too!). Made for you and your body, the Womanizer Liberty stimulates the clitoris with no direct contact. Gentle air vibrations suck and massage together at the same time to provide an unprecedented orgasmic feeling.

DONA Kissable Massage Oil

Sit back and enjoy a sensual massage with DONA Kissable Massage Oil. This aphrodisiac and pheromone-infused oil will trigger intense tactile sensations that release stress to help you relax, plus it’s just plain sexy. Non-greasy and sweet dessert for your masseuse, too!

Ignite Arousal: Combating Low Libido

This one-hour course discusses and explores the most common sexual complaint of people in long-term relationships—low libido. Learn the culprits and discover the solutions to create a sex life that feels effortless, connective, and pleasurable. Click here to view.

Build a Sexy Bedroom

In this class, you’ll learn how to craft a bedroom retreat that invites erotic play, while leaving stress and the burdens of responsibility firmly on the other side of the door. Click here to view.

Is your to-do list killing your sex life?

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Picture this: you’re in bed with your significant other, things are getting hot and heavy, and the moment you are about to have sex, a memory of work flashes into your head, or you spy the dirty laundry on the floor you meant to do last week. Next thing you know, sex isn’t even on your mind anymore. Sound familiar?

Several life factors can contribute to low libido, and responsibility is at the very top of the list. Having work, family, and household chores top of mind is not the golden ticket to getting in the mood for sex. Here, our resident sexologist Dr. Celeste Holbrook shares science-backed insight on why resolving your responsibilities outside of the bedroom can lead to increased libido, as well as a list of action items you can do to help you get there. 

Is your to-do list killing your sex life?

Did you know responsibility is the greatest killer of arousal? That means, when you are thinking about your work contracts, the laundry, or that call to your mother, your brain will find it difficult to focus on getting in the mood for sex. If you think about it, pleasure is the opposite of responsibility. Pleasure is a healthy sense of irresponsibility. Pleasure doesn’t outright have a purpose other than pleasure…and that can feel frivolous. But that helps us see how removing responsibilities from your thoughts is one of the ways you can step into your pleasure. It’s easier said than done, so here is a list of ways that you can unhinge your to-do’s and lock in to your pleasure. 

1. Create a sexy, serene bedroom by removing the computer, bins of laundry, and pics of your kids from your nightstand.

2. Make sure your toys are charged and cleaned after every use, so you know they are good to go and you aren’t worried about them dying mid-orgasm.

3. Communicate with your partner earlier in the day about what is on your mind. Talk about what is making you anxious, frustrated or excited about the upcoming days or weeks and then resolve to leave those thoughts outside of your bedroom door during sex.

4. If you have kids, take some time to separate from the responsibility of caregiving by going for a walk, taking a bath or letting your partner put them to bed while you go to dinner on your own. 

5. Practice pleasure in other ways. Have an impromptu dance party in the mirror. Indulge in your favorite scent. Put your feet in the grass and look up at the clouds for a full 5 minutes.  Practicing pleasure in more accessible ways can help you step into pleasure in your bedroom.

  • Dr. Celeste Holbrook

At Velvet Box, it is our passion to help individuals just like you to achieve the intimacy and connection you deserve. While you work your way through this list, treat yourself to one of our webinars, communication tools, and or vibes to help you along the way. 

Go from To-Do to To-Daaaaang

  1. Need assistance creating a sexy bedroom? Our recent webinar, Build a Sexy Bedroom is available for on-demand purchase.
  2. Sex toys can bring more than just good vibes. Add a bit of vibration or air pulse technology, and you can experience more orgasms, even during penetrative sex. Treat yourself to a new vibe from our Expert Picks selection!
  3. Communication is lubrication. If you need extra guidance when talking to your partner, check out one of our many Communication Tools to get you started. 
  4. While your partner is taking care of the kids, get in the mood during your time alone with some lingerie. When you feel sexy, sex feels sexy.

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About Dr. Celeste Holbrook

Many of you may know our resident sexologist, Dr. Celeste Holbrook. Whether it’s through one or many of our intimacy classes with her, or perhaps you’ve been following her incredible Instagram all along (if not, we highly recommend you give her a follow). But for those who may not know her yet, Dr. Holbrook is a sexologist, speaker, and author who has dedicated her life to helping women achieve soul-centered sex through perfectly planned mental and behavioral changes. Learn more about Celeste and her journey as a sexologist on her website at drcelesteholbrook.com.